Mirrors of the Soul - The Lover's

I have been receiving many e-mails from clients who are in difficult relationships that are controlling or unfulfilled.

This brings me to the Lover's Tarot Card. The Lover's when appearing usually signifies a relationship. More importantly, it helps to know that every relationship you are in is a direct reflection of your inner state. Many times people complain that others walk all over them. This is a reflection of your inner state. Perhaps you walk all over yourself. You can never change another person. You can only change yourself and thus your vibration. In doing this, the relationship will either follow you, and raise with you, or it may be time for it to dissolve on the physical plane. Whether a relationship changes form or dissolves you can always honor this on the Spiritual plane.

It is important when making a decision in relationships to decide if you want the relationship to change form or release. I have taught this for many years in my Spiritual teachings and was refreshed to read it in Sanaya Roman's Soul Love, a fantastic book, which I highly recommend. In the book Sanaya urge's you to imagine your life, if you had everything you wanted and were satisfied with your life, had good friends, had a good salary, good job. Would you still want to relationship to end? If the answer is no. Then perhaps it wasn't the relationship you were dissatisfied with, but your own life.

When the Lover's card pops up in a tarot reading I urge you to look to the relationship you have with yourself. Do you honor it? The outer relationships you have with others reflect this inner state of being.

Image from the Osho Zen Tarot deck.